5 Signs My Separated Wife Wants to Reconcile (2023)

Introduction

We all want to see the "signs" that we know our spouse wants us back or wants to come back home. Being separated is a stressful time. Today's video talks about signs that your separated wife will show when they want to reconcile.

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Tasha Curry has been through a divorce and has been separated from her current spouse twice. But with personal development she has been able to maintain a long-term marriage and bring her marriage back from the brink of divorce. She wants to help you get your marriage back to being loving and full of passion. The tips she share are things that changed her relationship and lifestyle. Hopefully It can work for you.

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What's good, this video was actually requested by a subscriber marlin because he requested it.

I wanted to make this video specifically for him, but if it helps anybody else that watches this video, that's a plus, so I did a video uh, maybe about a year ago that was called the five signs my separated husband wants to reconcile.

So, as you guys can see from the title, this is five signs.

My wife, my separated wife, wants to reconcile because sometimes us women, we talk more in code.

We want our men to kind of figure out what we're trying to say a lot of times.

We don't really upfront say what it is that we want.

I mean: that's not always it's not always because for most women we actually wear our hearts on our sleeve.

So a lot of times, you'll know what we're thinking but getting into the video here are my five signs that your separated wife wants to reconcile one.

She shows affection.

Usually we know when our partner's upset with us, because that's usually the first thing to go the affection, the kissing, the touching the pet names.

All of that just goes away and for most people this is usually the first time that we even know that our spouse is upset with us, because even when we try to show them affection, they'll reject our affection.

So it's all about the small things she might smile at you.

She might lightly touch you.

She might look into your eyes while you're speaking she might even hold your hand.

She might do something meaningful for you and even if it's just a small gesture, it's for you and you don't even have to ask her.

She just does it she's, actually just showing you instead of telling you how much she loves you and how much she misses you.

Another thing is she'll, be a little bit more concerned about what you're doing, for instance, when me and my husband had first got separated, I didn't care what he did.

I was so angry I was so upset.

I was so hurt.

I just I didn't care, but when I made the decision to say I want to make my marriage work, I started to be a little bit more concerned about what he's doing.

I would ask him not to again be like interrogating him or trying to find some secret, but I would ask him, like you know what you're doing I'm gonna ask him who he's hanging out with.

I might ask him, where he's going, there's a way that you can ask somebody by sounding, like you're, just interested you're, not really trying to interrogate them to be like, oh, who you going with, where you going, who you going with what time you're coming back home? No, I would ask more about his day and I would ask him like open-ended questions, to know why he might have chosen to go out a certain place or or things like that, like it's just they're more concerned about your life, three, I don't even know if I said two but three, she confides in you most of us women.

We have girlfriends.

So when we need advice about something we're going to go to our girlfriends, we're going to go to maybe some family members, but most of the time we'll go to our friends, we're not going to ask our spouse anything or talk to our spouse.

About anything.

That's going on in our life, but once they know, or once we know that we want to work things out with you, we'll start telling you a little bit more about what's going on in our life, she might ask your advice or ask your thoughts on things.

The conversations that you're having are not just surface level.

Conversations like there really may be some deep conversations about.

What's going on what she's doing four she's actually making decisions that includes you, sometimes us women, we could be very independent, which that's not a bad thing, but when you're married you're, an individual but you're, not necessarily independent.

What I mean by that is when you're making decisions, especially something that's going to affect the household, it's conversations that need to happen together with your spouse, not by yourself.

So, even though you guys might be separated if she's, having conversations with you and asking you advice and making decisions that includes you there's a possibility that she actually might want to reconcile five whenever she needs help.

She's calling you I'm gonna, tell you a little story, so when me and my husband were separated, I had a dryer and for those of you that have moved around with a washer and dryer.

Sometimes you have to change the connection on your dryer.

You have to change the plug to either a two-prong, plug, I think, or a three-prong plug, and I was in that situation where I had to change out the plug for my dryer now.

My father is the type of man that wanted his daughter very independent.

So he taught me certain things that I can do myself, but even though I knew how to change this plug, I still called my husband and asked for help, and what did he do? He came over and helped because he didn't want me to ask anybody else.

I think so a lot of times we'll do that we'll do something to where we will either get you to come to our house or help us in some type of way, and I'm gonna give you a bonus tip.

Like I said in in my first video she's, just gonna tell you and she's also going to admit her mistakes for some people, it's very hard for them to admit when they're wrong, and I think that it takes a big person to admit when they are wrong and maybe she'll tell you the reason why you two are separated is because of her and she'll apologize about her part, and while you two are going through the situation that you're going through in your marriage right now now.

She also may do this if she knows that she's going to completely walk away from you, but the fact that she's opening up to you and the fact that she is apologizing and really kind of showing her soul and her heart.

It shows that there's still love there, because thinking back like right now with my first marriage, I didn't admit to my ex-spouse at all that I did wrong.

I never apologized to him for any of the things that I've done when we ended up getting separated.

In all honesty, like I blamed him for everything, I said he was the reason why we were separated.

He was the reason that we were going through a divorce.

It was all him it wasn't until later, when I was going through the separation with my husband that I realized my faults in that separation and in that marriage, and it really took when I was trying to change my mindset and change how I can be a better partner that I realized those wrongdoings and, of course, none of these signs aren't guaranteed that you're going to work out your marriage and you're going to get your marriage back, but these are usually the start, the start of the signs that shows that there's no love loss and that there is a possibility, because, no matter what it still depends on how you react to your spouse, you can feel like you're taking one step forward and then something happens.

And now you feel, like you took 10 steps back, and even if you see these signs, you still have to take time, get your spouse to open up better your communication and make sure you're moving forward.

You also have to make sure that every single decision that you make is right for the both of you, so I really hope this video brought you value marlon.

Thank you so much for requesting this video.

I hope it was to your liking and I hope that it really helped you.

Of course, there are more signs, and I really could have went in depth with this.

But to me I feel, like these reasons are probably some of the top reasons to know which way that you should go in your marriage.

One thing I want to leave with all of you guys is that, even if you are not seeing these signs depending on, if you're a man or woman watching this, even if you don't see these signs- and I don't think I said this in the last video- that does not mean that your marriage is heading for divorce.

It just means that you have to work harder to bring that connection back with your spouse, and I think there are too many people out here that, because of their negative situation, they're going to tell you that, no matter what it's not going to work- and you have to have belief in yourself and in your marriage- that you can make things work- that it doesn't matter what's going on right now that you have to believe that you can bring your marriage back together like and share this video, if you feel like it's going to help someone else subscribe.

If you want to see more videos like this and remember, love yourself, adore yourself and always be yourself.

Thank you and I hope I can see you guys in the next one.